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So I guess, Harlie likes to sit right out in front where everyone can see her! Lol, bc I only look different from the side! it cracks me up! :D

So yeah, from the front I dont look that big, huh?

I had a great Christmas! I spent it with Jeremy, Ashley and their mom Michelle. Michelle really made me feel like I was home. She got me a really nice bath set. And if you know me at all I LOVE bath stuff! Especially now, I take a bath everynight. Its the only time I feel weightless! lol. I got some money from family. I think it all added up to about $350 ( and that was all specifically for me not me and Jesse ) But I only got about 100 of it! lol, Jesse took the rest. Something about food or something... selfish jerk ;) You would not believe how expensive it is over there! He said that a dozen eggs cost around $6! thats just crazy!

Anyhow, So, I sent Jesse a big box for Christmas. He got it today. I tried to make it feel like christmas for him. We usually dont really do gifts. Its just awesome to go out to dinner together. Thats all I ever ask for when its gift time. But I couldn't do that, so I sent him all his favorite goodies. Got him some Cowboys things, and a DVD. But we are also trying to save up money and pay off debt before Harlie gets here. So neither of us did anything extravagant. I told him not to get me anything until after we get some bills paid off. Then He's going downtown and he better get me something cool! lol.

That was our Christmas. I sat down and counted up the holidays we missed together. And out of the 5 years ( it will be 5 years in may 2009) we have been married he's been away for 21 months. Missed 3 of my birthdays, 3 anniversaries, 1 Thanksgiving, and 1 Christmas. So, That is really not bad! I am so Thankful he hasnt been away that much! We have really been lucky! :)

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i lost the remote :)luckily I found it before I rolled myself off the couch lol

stupid girls and their stupid stuff

So, theres this girl on myspace. Its one of Jesse's old friends from Mississippi. Well, a few years back she starting calling him. She once asked if she could come visit but if I could not be home. Yeah ok. So, we changed our numbers and we didnt talk to her anymore. She found him on Myspace. So now, she has been messaging him flirting. and when he asked her to stop, she asked for an explanation. Jesse said he didnt owe her one, so he wasnt going to explain why. Plus its pretty well understood that its not ok to flirt with someone elses husband.... or am i just old fashioned? lol So she was leaving messages and comments that were rude. So, I sent her a message and I tried to be nice, i really did. I am a very nice person. You all know me :)
Usually things dont bother me. I mean really... Jesse is a tattoo artist and a piercer. He's tattooed and pierced boobies and other things. I'm not a jealous person. What made me made was that she was being mean to Jesse. ( I know that he can handle it, but it kills me!!) So, The only thing mean i said to her was "If it makes you happy to be mad at me then do that. If it makes you happy to be a bitch, then do that. But Do not make yourself happy by flirting with Jesse or being rude to Jesse. This is over, Now" To be perfectly honest, it took all I had to be that rude. Lol

So, she writes me back and asks if I control Jesse's Whole life or just his internet like. And So I control him because my life with him sucks ( basically) So, I'm a little bit upset. And I have NO IDEA how to handle this!! I am not a person who fights with people, but I will fight for Jesse lol
any suggestions?

I love this song!!

"God love Her" by toby keith

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-nOq3k0G-IE

It is me and Jesse!! Lol, but Jesse is way hotter than the guy in the video! lol :D

tagged!!!! : HUSBANDS EDITION
Each Person answers questions about their sweethearts. At the End of the post, the person then tags people and posts their names
What is your husbands name? Jesse Randall
How long have you guys been married? it will be 5 years may 8
How long did you date? Dated for 6 months, engaged 9 months
How old is he? 24
Who eats more sweets? definatly me. He is not into anything sweet.. except me of course lol
Who said I love you first?he did. He said it like a week after we started dating. He was sure from the start that we were getting married. I needed time to make sure. It was a few weeks after him that I finally said it
Who is taller? Jesse
Who can sing the best? I love to listen to Jesse sing, But noone else does. lol, so prolly me
Who is smarter? Jesse is smarter than me. I am smart but he knows everything ;)
Who does the laundry? when I worked we shared it all. He was really good at helping, but now that I dont work, I dont ask him to help. its my job since I'm home
Who pays the bills? well, When he was in charge of it, he would miss bills, so I took over.
Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? me. but if we moved furniture I'd have to be wherever the alarm clock gets moved. Jesse cannot get up in the morning
Who mows the lawn? no-one, we dont have a lawnmower
Who cooks dinner? usually me, but if i dont want to Jesse will
Who drives? Jesse always drives
Who is the first to admit when they are wrong? we usually both talk it out and whoever is wrong says it. we are both pretty good at admitting we are wrong
Who kissed who first? Jesse, at that point in my life I wouldnt "really" kiss him. He would always try and I'd smack his arm or something and he's just say 'i forgot' lol
Who asked who out first? It was such a funny story! I was dating this jerk, and Jesse knew. He said that when I decide to break up with him to call him. I had a thing for Jesse Long before we actually met. So I broke up with that guy and then the next day found Jes in the hallway and told him. He said "ok" and walked away! So, he was playing hard to get! lol But he eventually asked me out.
Who wears the pants? Well, We both make the decisions. We discuss and come up with it but when it comes down to it, Jesse has the last say. But its not like he dismisses what i say
What is one of the best things that he does that you love? Its nothing that he just does. I just love how he treats me. I am totally spoiled by him. If I say something bothers me he fixes it. If he does something I dont like he stops. And its not a huge arguement. i tell him all the time that i dont have advise for my friends when they complain about their husbands because I havent complained about him! lol, We just work so well together. And he treats me so well, If i want something he does whatever he can to get it for me. And the beauty is that I do the same for him


I tag Summer Dawn, Aunt Kim and Amy

Just a cute little story

So, this morning Jesse called me at like 630 am. I dont complain, I'd rather him wake me up than to not call me at all. So, anyway, I answer and we are just talking about everything thats going on. Apparently Harlie can feel when I'm happy because she stared kicking and doing some flips. So, like an hour goes by and she's gone still. I reach down and my stomach is almost a right angle. She has curled up in a ball right under my ribs! The whole right side of my stomach was mushy and the left side was hard. Its just the coolest thing! She likes to stay on my left side and way up high. AND she likes to kick my bladder while head butting my diaphragm. But I enjoy it all. Its such a miraculous feeling! Anyhow, that was my morning :)

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This is Monty, our Ball Python. Its kinda hard to see him, hes lying on the log stretched out. I bet his about 4 feet long now. He's fully grown though. Well, he may get a little bigger but not too much. We have had him for 4 years. I got him the first year we were out here for Jesse's birthday.

Pooter Waiting for me to throw the ball. I just thought he was so cute with his lip tucked in his teeth. He is the best! He loves me when my breath stinks, and lets me tuck my freezing cold feet under his belly. Hes an awesome Dog!

This is Mona, She is out reticulated Python. Its a little hard to see her but shes on the eliptical machine.

So from the side you can absolutely see that theres a baby in there! lol

I look normal from the front. I can see that my body is repostioning my fat! lol, I'm loosing but its all going to my stomach! lol